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dumped by txt

chaosmunkey, posted over a year ago

Started seeing my ex girlfriend in feb 2007,she was going through a rough time after her husband had left her after moving to a new home and only lived there for six weeks.He left her to live with a woman who he had had an affair with previously,needless to say,my ex was gutted.This was oct 2006,and i started to see her in feb 2007 as i said.We got on like a house on fire,felt like we had known each other for years,i really thought id met my soul mate.Everything went really well,and she decided to put the property on the market and file for a divorce from him.She constantly told me tha he was never gonna be a threat to us ever,and things progressed to the point of talk of even living together when the house sold.By christmas 2007 the property hadnt sold,and between then and the new year she told me that she had something to tell me.She said he had been in touch and that he was leaving his girlfriend whom he had moved in with,and was gonna be moving back into thier house,living seperate lives of course,needless to say,i wasnt very happy with this,but i cant tell a guy he cant live in his own house can i?Anyway new year came and i dropped her off at home new years day,night,and she said she loved me so much,and agin that he was nothing to worry about.After nearly a year that was the last time i saw her.Two days later,i recieved a txt from her,saying that she still loved him,and not me!!! I thought it was a joke txted back,no reply,till the day after,then again she txted the same message,so i rang her,and she told me she did still love him,needless to say i was heartbroken,and to this day,she hasnt been in touch,nor have i seen her.No arguements leading up to this,just bang,out of the blue.Im still confused,and upset and really cant get my head round why she played me for nearly a year,was it to make him jealous,or some other reason,i dont know,but what i do know is that being dumped by txt message is probably the worst feeling ive ever had,really awful,and has left me a bit of a mess emotionally,but she would give no explanation to why she had done it.The house is now of the market,divorce stopped and they are going on holiday together soon,and im left to get on with whats left of my life.I miss her so much,i never thought she would do anything as heartless as this,just shows you never really know someone really,do you.

Posted on 24 February 2008 @ 6:1 (London time) - permalink
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