HEARTBROKEN

Lesleyk, posted over a year ago

I am absolutely heartbroken that my husband of 19 years has left me for another woman he met at work. He has cried in my arms and told me he loves me but can't live with me and our terrible debt, financial problems any longer and she is his escape route. We cried for hours before we said goodbye and the hurt I feel just doesn't seem to get any better. I cry everyday, my two teenage boys are great but don't know how to help me. I have not only lost my husband but will definitely lose our home too, its unavoidable, I won't go into detail. I just want to stop crying and can't seem able to, its been three weeks since he left.

Posted on 25 August 2007 @ 21:29 (London time) - permalink
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007SEXYBITCH, posted over a year ago

I'm so sorry to hear about your troubles, but most importantly your financial worry. I mean at the end of the day running away to this other woman isn't going to help him but most importantly at this time you need to concentrate on your financial woes. Have you visited the Citizen's advice bureau with regards to losing your home?

Also make an appointment to see your GP and tell him you're suffering from depression then see a solicitor with regards to your home. You could ask you doctor to write a letter stating the stress and depression you're undergoing and use that as a defence when going to court over your property.

I don't really know your situation but you might be eligible for housing benefit if it's a rented property or assistance with a mortgage. I hope this is beneficial for you if not feel free to PM me, I underwent through something quite similar recently but I was able to save my home.

Posted on 27 August 2007 @ 3:32 (London time) - permalink
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