HEARTBROKEN

I am absolutely heartbroken that my husband of 19 years has left me for another woman he met at work. He has cried in my arms and told me he loves me but can't live with me and our terrible debt, financial problems any longer and she is his escape route. We cried for hours before we said goodbye and the hurt I feel just doesn't seem to get any better. I cry everyday, my two teenage boys are great but don't know how to help me. I have not only lost my husband but will definitely lose our home too, its unavoidable, I won't go into detail. I just want to stop crying and can't seem able to, its been three weeks since he left.

Posted on 25 August 2007 @ 21:27 (London time) - permalink
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Im very sorry to hear about that, i just got out of a 4yr. relationship, and it's been devestating for me. So my heart goes out to you, its a terrible thing I don't know why people do it, I dont know why. I guess the only thing that i can say is to try and keep yourself as busy as possible. I am trying to do the same. That's the only thing keeping me going, at this moment.

Posted on 28 December 2007 @ 7:53 (London time) - permalink
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You need COUNSELLING I dont believe in psychiatrists, but they truly help you need to have medications as soon as possible. I caught my husband in an affair it devastated me to the point where I was suicidle I also have been married 18 years, my husband did not leave me but he had the affair things will never be the same. He begged for me to forgive him I am still trying, I could not eat, I was talking to myself, heartbreak wow you can actually feel the heart in pain physically you can...(your husband is a selfish coward to leave you and his children) I am sorry to say that, but he is and you dont need him God will be there, I have my husband with me, but don't think I don't think about his affair the love I had for my man will never be back, maybe he should of done what your husband did..Men who screw around suffer the consequences you have to sons, you know what they will never RESPECT HIM AGAIN, ALL THIS IS LOST! This is a huge consequence. HANG IN THERE I thought I was going to die, but I am taking care of myself, My husband well he follows me around thinking I am going to leave him Now please GET SOME MEDICATION IT WILL GET YOU OVER THIS HUGE MOUNTAIN, TAKE CARE XXXXXXXXXXXXX

Posted on 29 December 2007 @ 22:13 (London time) - permalink
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My husband and i were due to celebrate our silver wedding later this year but he has just told me that he has been having an affair for the last eight months which has been easy for him to do as a long distance truck driver covering europe. He says he is in love with the other woman and does not love me in the same way any more. He says this is not the first affair he has had and does not know whether he wants to give our marriage another try. We have a 17 year old daughter who loves and idolises her daddy and will be devasted if she learns of what is happening. I have no one i can tell as all our friends are shared and they would hate what he has done. He has friends who are other drivers who know about the affair and he has told them about it. I dont know what to do. I love him.

Posted on 1 January 2008 @ 20:34 (London time) - permalink
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I can relate, my wife of nearly 20 years admitted to having an affair after I figured it out. I'm devastated, never saw it coming. She wants to get it back together with us, but I just can't seem to trust her anymore. If we split, we will definitely lose everything. The bad part is, I think that's what she's trying to avoid rather than pledging her love to me. I don't care about the material things, I have to know in my heart that we are staying together because we love each other.

Posted on 6 February 2008 @ 5:19 (London time) - permalink
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Sounds like a mid life crisis to me. hubby told me that he wanted out about 7 weeks ago. He still loved me and after 20 years of a great marriage just got up one morning and said he needed to be on his own - usual rubbish. I then found out he was talking to another woman on the internet and he had told her he was seperated. I told him to go after 3 weeks of leading me on a rollercoaster ride. Yes Im staying - no i'm not. This was the bolt he needed. I found her number and called her and said I did not blame her as he told her so many lies. Like he was leading a double life - full of fantasy. He turned it around overnight - became completely honest, attentive and full of romance. We are working at the marriage as it is a long time and three kids to take into consideration. But he has a lot of bridge building to make up for. i need to see if I can learn to trust and believe in him.

Posted on 12 March 2008 @ 17:13 (London time) - permalink
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im so sorry 2 hear dat he could eva do dat 2 u

Posted on 4 June 2008 @ 18:28 (London time) - permalink
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