| ericnuke, posted
over a year ago
I also posted this on the main page but's it's 4 in the morning and I can't sleep. I've been dating this amazing girl for 7 months. She is really everything that I've dreamed of finding in a woman, yet i have doubts, and sorry for the cliche', that she is the one. I truly do love her and can't imagine my life with out her. We talked about this almost a week ago and we decided that we needed some time apart so that I could get some perspective and search my heart to try and figure out what I wanted. It's been terrible being away from her but I've really been amazed at how much I've learned about my heart in such a short time, and all I want to do is share all this with her but I can't because I know that I need to clear my head of all the emotions right now so I can make a decision. I guess I'm just looking for any kind of insight or advice from anyone who's gone through a "taking a break" situation, and also how any of you know that, again sorry for the chiche', someone is the one for you. And lastly, if I go back to her and say that I want to continue our relationship, do I need to be sure about marriage? That is the ultimate goal for any relationship to me. Can I go back to her and say, "i can't promise you that we will end up together, but I sure what to find out." Is that fair to her or am I putting to much pressure on myself? The last thing in the world I want to do is unknowingly lead her on and hurt her. Thanks for any thoughts you all might have.
Posted on 14 February 2007 @ 9:33 (London time) - permalink
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