I must be nuts, what do you think?

BeachChick, posted over a year ago

Hello..

I was dating someone for about a year, and finally came to the conclusion, that he wasn't right for me. In one year, he never asked me one personal question about myself. He didn't ask where I was from, where city I grew up in, if I had a brother or sister, or even when my birthday was.

He didn't talk a lot about his personal life either. Then he started spending the night at my home. Leaving clothes, so I started taking his clothes to the dry cleaners, doing his laundry for him, buying food. I think the straw that broke the camels back, was I paid for Valentines day dinner. I didn't mind paying, but he was so selfish.

We had sex when he wanted to, he would come over when HE wanted to. I just became sick of it, and I told him so. I told him to get lost.

It's been 3 weeks, and I miss him, and I can't believe I spent a year with someone, and they didn't even have the decency to call me on Christmas, to wish me well, and I know he won't call me on New Years.

Why do I miss a jerk like this?

Posted on 31 December 2006 @ 6:35 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

You went out with someone for a year and he never asked you one personal question about yourself?

Wow, I find that astounding!

Maybe you miss him because you've never experienced anything better?

Why would he call you on Christmas, or New Years? You guys are long over. Time to move on and look forward to having a much better, fulfilling realationship in the future.

Posted on 31 December 2006 @ 14:39 (London time) - permalink
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willywombat, posted over a year ago

He was USING you. Plain and simple. He didn't care enough about you to find out anyhting about you, and he enjoyed the benefits that being in this non-relationship with you brought to him.

You miss him because you now have an 'asshole' shaped hole in your life that he filled. I hope you learn to like and value yourself a bit more and you find peace within yourself to be alone. When you are a confident single individual YOU will find somebody who will treat you right.

Why?

Because you won't put up with dross like that guy.

Good luck honey!!

Posted on 1 January 2007 @ 14:56 (London time) - permalink
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