Help!! Am I stupid or something?

Need advice. Don't know if I am being cheated on, or if I am just in denial of the whole situation. My man and I have been together for over 3 years. We got pregnant early on in the relationship and unfortunately our daughter was stillborn at 36 weeks. Well after the birth, before I returned to work, we went out to eat. I was playing games on his cell phone and a text message came in saying "Call me, Please." Something just didnt sit well with me so I remembered the number and texted it from work the next day. It was a female, and she stated to me that he told her that I told him after we lost the baby that I didnt want to be with him anymore. I said no such thing. Well we talked and talked and finally she must have gotten tired of my questions because she was like just leave me alone, I dont want anything to do with him, you can have him. So he found out I contacted her and got upset that I didnt come to him first. ALL in all, the situation ended so I thought. Well this summer, we were talking about phones and how he turns his cell off when he is around me and so I didnt let him turn it off. Low and behold this same chick calls him phone not once but twice, and he says she just called to say hi and he didnt know if she wanted anything else. Well to top it off, my aunt got a call from a co-worker just checking on her and she told my aunt that she was a grandmother. My aunt said congrats, and the lady wasnt happy. She said her daughter got this no good man, with no job, who puts on suits and pretends and they caught him in their house, etc, etc. Low and behold, its my man. Well I presented him with this info and he said that the girl was raped and she needed a friend and the baby isnt his and he was at her house the night that he picked her up from the hospital and she asked him to stay until her parents got home. My question to him was why would u put yourself in a compromising situation with someone we have had previous problems with. Why would you stay at her house. My question is, I dont know if I believe him. I dont know if I can believe him. Something just doesnt seem right and doesnt feel right. I need advice!

Posted on 19 October 2006 @ 21:34 (London time) - permalink
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that sounds similer to what my ex was doing to me but when i got a bit annoyed she gave me the guilt trip that i am so jelous dont give her any space so she showed me the sender not the message and it had a girls name to it i made my appologies and even bought her a car for her birthday and early valentines pressy as i was away on business in another country everything back as normal until 2 days later when i get text that was ment for him saying about there previous evening. sorry mines more like a question but 10 months on and i love her more today than i did then and we have had limited contaCT

Posted on 29 October 2006 @ 13:42 (London time) - permalink
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