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help: need advice...

mark_santos, posted over a year ago

heres my story, well, i've been in a relationship for 3 years and 5 months. and my GF(now EX) broke up with me because she thinks im never going to marry her and she also thinks that she will never have a good future with me plus i bacame busy during the last months of our relationship, i was so busy trying to get a good job, lost some time for her.. (well, i will marry her in time but cant support a family right now because of financial reasons, am living in a 3rd world country) so ... we broke up, but was still seeing each other for the past 6 months, i started to give more time for her during the 6 month period... helped her with her daily activities... drove her around town so she wouldnt get tired of driving... cooked for her... studied grad school subjects with her etc. etc. i was trying to win her back but everytime i was so close to winning her back, i mess something up...

i really love her, but now, she found a new guy... they are having a long distance relationship right now... they are constantly communicating and stuff... she was very happy with the other guy, and i was happy for her because she was happy! .. one day my EX told me that some girl sent her an email telling why she was with her boyfriend, my ex told me she was shocked so she told his BF about it, the BF explained that he had so much flings before thier relationship and he assured her that he is now committed to her..

i opened up my EX's mail and took the email address of the girl that messaged my EX. i sent her a message with my number in it. one day, i revieved a text message from the girl... i quickly called her up and asked info about the guy... as we were talking, i was shocked by what she told me...(btw, she was crying while talking to me) well.. she told me that she and the GUY (my EX's BF now) was about to get married this comming december, her whole... but suddenly the guy stopped communicating with her (maybe bacause he met my EX and he left the other girl hanging for her) so, what i did was warned my EX about the guy ... and i think it was wrong because it just made me look pathetic, i dont even think that she believed what i said... but i just wanted to warn her and i was just concerned that the guy might do what he did to the other girl... plus, its my chance to win her back... i really love her...

what must i do?

Posted on 19 October 2006 @ 9:14 (London time) - permalink
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