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Dating ex-mates ex boyfriend, am I in the wrong?

sammibabesxosammibabesxo, posted over a year ago

How can I convince my ex-mate that I'm not a backstabber and that she's done worse and what I did wasn't bad. If I am in the wrong please tell me.

My ex-mate (I'll call her K) K dated this guy for approx 5 days, within this 5 days she told more than 3 men she would do anything they wanted etc (I personally think that's cheating) she sent pictures to over 10 guys and G (her boyfriend then) dumped her because he realized that she had no personality at all and she only wanted sex.

About a week later G got my phone number from K and we spoke for hours, he told me he picked the wrong person and told me all the crap she had told EVERYONE about me (that I'm obese, never shave, smell, never close my legs and that I have 4 brothers that beat everyone up, the last one just sounds stupid, but where I'm from that can get you into A LOT of trouble because everyone takes that as a threat.) G asked if I would go out with him, I said yes.

Later K phoned me screaming at me, saying I was her best mate and that G was the only man she’d ever loved (She said the exact same about the last 20 guys) I told her she was never a best mate and that I wasn’t doing anything wrong because G dumped her. ALSO K had slept with my ex over 30 times when I was still with him!

NOW K is telling G she’s pregnant with his kid, which always happens when she’s dumped for cheating.

So, am I in the wrong or not? And how do I get her to shut up if I’m not in the wrong.

Posted on 26 December 2009 @ 20:31 (London time) - permalink
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dragonfly33, posted over a year ago

i would say not to date a friends ex just on principal alone...but then how close are you two...i mean if she is trashing you behind your back it doesnt sound like a strong friendship...and the only way you should really date this guy is if you dont really want to be friends with her...bc it will just come btw your friendship...so i guess you have to decide who is worth more in your life him or her...i mean if things dont work with him have your ruined a really good friendship..is it worth it to you?? just think about those things!!

good luck

Posted on 27 December 2009 @ 15:25 (London time) - permalink
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