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My Ex-Boyfriend is Engaged but Still Wants ME!

Brokenhearted ConstantlyBrokenhearted Constantly, posted over a year ago

Need help!My 30 year old ex dumped me awhile back and is now engaged to a 19 year old who works as an escort in Vegas. He told me that he is afraid that he is making a big mistake marrying her because she texts, calls, and webcams him 24/7.He says she calls from 5am until 3am just to keep tabs on him. PLUS she gets upset if he doesn't give her money to buy things like he used to. He said that he hopes he hasn't blown his chances with me and that he really wants to get back together someday.He's in Vegas now to visit her for three days but wants to take me out when he returns. He hugged me before he left stating that "he loves me more than i will ever know" Should i give him another chance? Or should I let him accept his karma of dumping me for her? I still have feelings for him. Please help.

Posted on 21 October 2009 @ 3:44 (London time) - permalink
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To dump you for a 19 yr old escort must have really hurt and i am asking is escort in your state a working girl?

If so i would make sure if you do get back with him insist that he gets all his health checks done before you do anything with him.

This is not as uncommon as you think older guy wanting younger model but in reality somewhere along the line the age gap can cause problems not always but sometimes.

It looks as if he has discovered the grass isn't always greener on the other side, at the end of the day he might have been having great intimacy with her but take away that and what has he got? Not much by the sounds of it plus she is treating him like some money bank too! that does not surprise me either.

He needs to make the decision on whether he is making a mistake and it should not be based on the fact your ready to jump back with him if he dumps her.

If he wants to be with you then whilst he is in Vegas he should be telling her it is over, but i get the feeling he is not doing that, he will go see her then come back and see you?

I would be suspect as to his game plan here, he either wants you or her he cant have you both!

It is up to you what you do but before i even got that far i would want to know his three days in Vegas was to tell her it was over and that he was not there for pleasure!

Gina

Posted on 21 October 2009 @ 8:57 (London time) - permalink
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