malamute pup, posted
over a year ago
I am at a cross roads, I have just confirmed what I know in my mind that my husband is having another affair. This will be the third affair I know of, and in the very early days he had a few one inght stands. We have been together 20 years, and married 6 years ago. The affair beofre this was 8 years ago, and we lived aprt for 6 months but still saw each other, and it was a time in my life that was so awful as he did not know if he wanted to try again. I suspect he came back as I had just started to move forward and kissed a man (with some passion)good night after a night in a club with friends. He had followed me which I did not know.
This time I feel nothing, I left him a letter and asked him to pack some stuff that night and move out to give me some space and to tell our 3 adult children. We have spoken calmly and he has finished it and said he had never any intention of leaving me. He says he does not know what to do as he does not know why he does it. He does not know if we should call it a day or see if we can rebuild.He agrees whatever happens he need to see someone, as he is frightend it is something he has got from his father that very few years moves onto a younger model and leaves the current wife to marry them.
Why do I feel nothing, why have I not even cried, I am a very emotional person normally and just feel quite calm. Should I evn try again, or is he always going to do this?
Posted on 27 September 2009 @ 13:41 (London time) - permalink
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