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Am I wrong?

J.R., posted over a year ago

I've been with my boyfriend for 7 years now. He has been texting this girl for more than 4 months. She used to be in his math class. I knew about it, but never brought it up; I would get irritated when I see him texting. Recently she's been sending him messaging about how "she's falling for him", "thinking of him", "missing him", and "she doesn't know what to do if she can't have him". This girl has a boyfriend of her own. And when I confronted him, he told me that their relationship is platonic, they're just buddies. I love my boyfriend unconditionally and he tells me the same. When I asked him to stop texting her because I don't feel comfortable with it, he says he's not doing anything wrong and refuses to stop because it's not "logical". I was so furious that I told him that we need a break from our relationship so that maybe he will finally do something about it. I felt that I can't go back to the relationship if I'm just faking that I'm ok with the situation. (He's done this to me once before. And I never got over the first incident). But I miss him so much I feel like I'm going crazy. What should I do?

Posted on 10 June 2006 @ 19:42 (London time) - permalink
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yellowcornbaby, posted over a year ago

I was in a similar situation.. You should talk to your boyfriend about it and let him know that it makes you feel uncomfortable. If he respects you enough and cares about you like he says, he should make some changes to ease your mind but he doesn't have to stop being friends with the other girl or stop talking to her completely- ya know?

Posted on 22 March 2007 @ 8:12 (London time) - permalink
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