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boyfriend commitment problems

sadsadsad, posted over a year ago

I have been dating my boyfriend for 3 1/2 years. He has had a lot of commitment issues along over the years, like willingness to spend time with me. He has shown improvement. Recently, he got a job closer to my home. But he still only sees me on the weekend. He has a 21 year old daughter at home, who he says he has to pick up at work at night, so he doesn't stay with me often. I have asked for more commitment, like wedding date, a ring, and moving in. He says he wants to marry me some day. But I am tired of waiting. I am 47 and he is 48. It's time to make a decision. Recently, I have also found phone numbers including an phone dating line. I think I should end this. what do you think?

Posted on 7 February 2009 @ 20:5 (London time) - permalink
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Confusedwomen, posted over a year ago

I think it sounds like you have already made your decision and your finding it hard to come to terms with it. Maybe your just looking for some validation from someone else but unfortunately no one else can tell you what to do.

The fact that he has improved and says he does want to marry you some day is surely a good sign but life is too short to spend too long with someone who doesn't make you happy and if you're really feeling like you are tired of waiting then maybe ending it is the right decision.

I suggest that you have a proper conversation and explain to him exactly how you feel and that you would like some indication of when things are going to move to forward. Be careful to not make it sound like an ultimatum because you won't get an honest nswer that way. If he can't give you some more concrete answers then walk away and enjoy your life.

I'm no expert on relationships but hope my opinion has helped a bit.

Posted on 20 July 2009 @ 16:15 (London time) - permalink
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