| queserasera, posted
over a year ago
i have an ex bf who broke up with me but continued to call me while we were apart after saying specifically that he wanted nothing more to do with me and that i should move on. Now things are even worse bc the girl he dumped me for dumped him. So he has been calling me early morning (12 am) telling me how he's sorry for how he treated me, yet at the same time professing how much he loves the other woman and will do anything get her back.
Yes, this is painful for me, bc at one pt. he was in love with me and told me those things. Him and the new girl only dated for 4 months so I hardly believe that it can be love.
So in all honesty i believe that he still cares about me but will never admit it. He said that the only reason he apologized is so that God will give him the other woman back. I had a similar experience with another guy and although he said a lot of bs he finally came out and said that he loved me, but boy the mind games he put me threw were endless.
My ex claims to love her but during the whole time together he continued to call me and even see if I was dating anyone else. So does it sound like he has any feelings left for me? I told him yesterday that i could no longer take his calls bc it's too painful to hear him talk about how much he loves this other girl and is willing to do anything to get her back.
I mean out of all people, I don't understand why he'd call his ex. That's so confusing to me, and prior to that (about 3 wks ago) he called me and asked me about getting together. So obviously he cannot be too in love with her. Yet him crying and going on and on about it makes it seem feasible.
From a man's perspective, what does this typically mean. I know that these calls are not booty calls bc I never had sex with my ex while we were together and he KNOWS that there is no way I'd have sex out of a strong commitment bc I am a virgin. By the way he's 21 and I 20, so we're both very young.
Posted on 4 January 2009 @ 3:8 (London time) - permalink
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