I think its over after 4 years!

ChloesMommy, posted over a year ago

Me and my Fiance' have been together for almost 4 years. Everything started fine, but I got pregnant way to early in the relationship, and while I was pregnant he proposed to me. We have a beautiful 2 1/2 year old littl girl, but I am truly unhappy in my relationship! I have been unhappy for the past 2 1/2 years! Ever since my daughter was born!

My fiance' is lazy, boring, and spoiled! I am ready for it to be over. I just wrote him a long note and put it on his laptop. I want to get away so bad.

There is another guy in my life though, but I have known him for 17 years, and I don't know if he feels the same about me as I do for him! But he isn't the reason I wanna leave, I just wanna be myself again, and just have fun!

What do you guys think I should do? We never set a wedding date or anything, so we don't have to worry about canceling a wedding..I just don't want to be with him anymore. Still love him always will love him, but cannot stay in a relationship! Please...any advice would be great!

Thanks!

Sara

Posted on 2 December 2008 @ 9:9 (London time) - permalink
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Honeypie, posted over a year ago

You seem to be over the relationship. For a lot of people having a child makes for huge changes in the relationship dynamics. I think that part is pretty natural. The fact that you are looking outside of your relationship for a replacement (even if you haven't acted on it) pretty much says it all. You are done.

If you truly feel your relationship is over why haven't you moved on already? Having spend 2 1/2 year in a relationship where you obviously aren't happy isn't healthy. So why are you staying?

What was his responds to your letter?

And why did you write him a letter, not sit him down and talk? I know at times it can be easier to say what you feel in the written word, but the two of you obviously lack communication skills.

And, just because the two of you are parents now doesn't mean you can not have fun.

Posted on 26 December 2008 @ 12:36 (London time) - permalink
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