PLEASE HELP ME

takeo239, posted over a year ago

OK EVERYONE LOOK I juzz got outta a 3 year relationship it was mah fault I was a very controlling person im not ne more but still can ne one juzz give me ne tips how to not me so controlling so I can add to what Ive allready learned? I would post this on one of those other websites where people ask these types of ?'s and stuff but I dunno how so if ne one has good advice plz help me out !!! I love this girl more than ne thing and I kno I made a mistake I always told her I would change and never did so right now to her its like Im the lil boy who cried wolf Im even taking it as far as to ge see a hypnosis expert to help fix mah problems with control and jealousy how can I prove to her I rly am a changed person???

Posted on 10 July 2008 @ 15:51 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

You need help alright - with your written English.

Try asking the question on the main site but be prepared to have it rejected if you use the same spelling. Absolutely appalling!

Posted on 10 July 2008 @ 18:28 (London time) - permalink
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takeo239, posted over a year ago

ok is this better sir I'm only 19 so I write really slang like I'm sorry if it bothered you I will spell correctly I'm just in a hard time right now I need some guidance

Posted on 10 July 2008 @ 19:21 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Individual counselling to address your controlling/abusive tendancies. As well as some anger management courses.

I also would recommned some addictions recovery program. Why? One, most are service meaning will not cost you money. Two, with most anger issues/control issues signals addictive personalities as well.

Posted on 10 July 2008 @ 19:27 (London time) - permalink
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Tisha-1, posted over a year ago

Hi, that is much easier to read. Actually, you would get many more responses if you asked this question on the main site.

Copy/past this address and fill in the form there.

http://www.dearcupid.org/ask

You have a much better chance of getting it on the site if you don't use slang or txtspk.

The hypnotist might be a help to you, but I'm afraid that she may need some more solid, concrete evidence that you are truly changed. It may just take some time.

I don't know, I'm not terribly good with these types of questions. I think your best bet is to re-ask the question, spelling like you just did, not using the slang, and I'm pretty sure that you will get some more responses. They may not be what you want, but I expect they will give you food for thought. Also have a look at this article and think about if it can be applied to your behavior in the past.

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/warning-signs-youre-dating-a-loser.html

Posted on 10 July 2008 @ 19:35 (London time) - permalink
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, posted over a year ago

Sorry babes. Please post on the front board. Uncle Phil has a big thing with education, he means no harm. But please write in English, your post was difficult to read and it may be rejected by the moderator if the spelling is really bad. Don't worry, post on the front board where there are many people to help you out. We use this space for fun and chilling out. Take care of you.

Posted on 10 July 2008 @ 21:53 (London time) - permalink
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