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reeselee
writes:My ex wife, for the last five month's has been saying she still loves me and wants us. Last time she told me, she was trying to get to me, but her car tax has ran out, and hasnt got any money. I think now it is exscues she is just making, havent really got a clue where she is now, carnt belive things she tells me. We split up in may, how do i know if she really does want us and to try at this marrage? or is she stringin me along like i know she is? {Inside tell's me she stringin me along, cos if she wasnt wouldnt she have regular contact with me? I know you can be split up for a long time, and then some people can get back to try again, "I had thought a marrage was for better or for worse, we have been tho a lot,. I just had wished we could have tryed again. Not that I will get a chance. I know being with somebody for two years isnt long time like 5 more years, I just wish she was or had been genuwin about wanting us. I would have only tryed again if, she wasnt stringing me along, for her to have kept up saying she loves me ect for five months, does she really mean it? or is it really her stringin me along?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2008): Sounds like tough times a path that I have been on. When someone really loves they are not wishy washy about their attitude. If she is not willing to be committed then it's time to move on. Learn and grow from this relationship and prepare yourself for a healthier one next time around. A great book I found online at Barnes & Noble that I would highy suggest is Life's Little How To Book. This book saved my life. It gave great tips for recovering, making healthy relationship and appearing desirable around other along with other great life tips. I hope this helps. Good luck!
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reader, Gio  + ♥, writes (6 October 2008):
Hi,
It is difficult to say what your ex is thinking. Maybe you should concentrate on you, what are your real feelings about going back together, about you being able to trust her (I see you are doubting her and what she tells you).
Tax car or not, you should still be able to meet up, there is public transport? Or perhaps you could suggest to meet up in a place closer to her?
Good luck.
Gio
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