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I am a female of 21 years old. i am a care assistant for the elderly. I love helping people, it just comes naturall to me.

What can I say to ask her out before this other person does???

Q.   Hey Guys at Dear Cupid. I'm in love with this girl at school, and I mean LOVE, If something happened to her I'd just die! She knows that I like her but not as much as that. I really am just going crazy, I've never asked some-one out before I've ...

A.   3 December 2008: if you have her mobile number you could text her instead if it makes it easier on you, just explain how you feel on a text or even in a letter. or if you really want to ask her to her face then just simply say i know u know i like you but you dont ... (read in full...)

My partner and I both share a really good male friend... who I think I'm falling in love with!

Q.   I really need some ones advice as I'm going crazy. Basically I have a partner of 3 years who I do love. We both share a really good male friend but me and this guy seem closer, we are like soul mates. We both admitted there's something there be...

A.   28 November 2008: What you should do is take a break away from seeing him spend more time with your current relationship and then see after a week or 2, if you are still feeling the same, if you are you must talk to this person then discuss with him what to do from ... (read in full...)

Two friends are fighting for my attentions

Q.   i have a group of four friends who are all male,they have been very very good friends. now two of them want a personal affair with me or want to start up a relationship which could go as far as marriage. now those two are not very good friends as ...

A.   28 November 2008: Then you tell them both you want to meet them or when it's just the three of you, tell them they must stop the situation they're doing or else you're not sure if you can be friends with neither of them. Tell them the only thing you want from both ... (read in full...)

Should I ignore her and her calls or talk to her about it?

Q.   i started talkin to my ex girlfriend again.. hungout wit her on her bday she told me she loved me n all that.. than she goes out that night and hangouts wit another guy.. didnt kno she'd do that.. but i had to find pictures on a website wit them ...

A.   28 November 2008: Talk to her about it, a problem will never solve itself, at least let her know where she stands so she can move on. Just be sure you really have had enough because you may never get her back once you've made the choice. ... (read in full...)

Going backwards.

Q.   I am 21 and have been with my boyfriend since I was 16. I have always been a jealous person, and a person who doesn't trust easily. My boyfriend has always been someone who didn't want to go out and liked to stay indoors, but it seems now we are ...

A.   28 November 2008: Men do change over the years as they get older, they like socialising a lot with different people so I have found doesn't mean he see's woman as anything more than a conversation. Your relationship is going backwards, he's just changing and so ... (read in full...)

Should I be her slave?

Q.   Hi, I am back, thanks Irish 49 for calling me naughty.. trust me I am.. now there is twist in my story.. my neighbour has my picture, well 2 days ago I went to her house when she was all alone and we were very intimate.. just then she said "be my ...

A.   28 November 2008: im gathering the photo is on her phone, well you dont need to steal it go through her phone and delete it when she isnt around or when you arrive to hers pick her phone up take it to the bathroom and delete it that way, or even better go to the ... (read in full...)

I'm soooo in love but miserable and confused.

Q.   Dear agony aunt: My boyfriend hasn't been having the best of luck these past few months, he says he has problems in his life because everything hasn't been going right for him. Now I try to help him but he pushes me away and because of this we ...

A.   28 November 2008: You need to have a good talk to him and tell him in a ralationship in order to have a very good one you have to be there 4 each other and you cant possibly do that if he keeps pushing you away all the time tell him it must stop or else he could lose ... (read in full...)

Have any of the female readers felt the same way about their current partner?

Q.   I'm a bit confused and need some advice. Last week I started chatting online with a very nice young lady, and we have been texting constantly every day since. I met her for the first time last night down the pub, and after we said good bye I ...

A.   28 November 2008: Maybe she has been through a tough past or may be not either way maybe she just wants to begin to trust you first before she feels anything for you, or maybe she's just looking for friendship? Either way what you should do although you haven't ... (read in full...)

Why does he flirt with my friends when we've had a fight?

Q.   Why do guys think that just because him and his girlfriend are in a fight that he can go around flirting with his girlfriend's friends who he just likes as friends????????????????? ...

A.   16 October 2008: hes proberly trying to get you jealous or trying to show you he can still pull girls, just play it cool when he flirts next just do the same thing then when he moans about it just reply you know how it feels now, then agree with him neither of you ... (read in full...)

Can you be friends with an ex with whom you have recently split?

Q.   Can you still be freinds with an ex who you recently split with ive spoken to him on the phone and get on really well and ive seen him since we split and got on fine then. Do you think t could work like that ...

A.   16 October 2008: yes definitely as long as you dont let your feelings get in the way of your freindship. ... (read in full...)

He's awesome...but he's three years younger than me!

Q.   Dear Cupid, There's this boy in my youth group, and we've become really good friends. He's cute, he's sweet, he's funny, and we have a lot of fun together. I think I'm really starting to like him in more than a just-friends kind of way, and my c...

A.   8 October 2008: age difference just a number hun, as long as you both like each other and both wana give it a go, go ahead just maybe keep a secret for a bit untill you both know it is defanately going to work out. ... (read in full...)

I'm 18, my family would be mad to know I am dating a man 22 years my senior! What to do?

Q.   I have a hugh problem i have been seeing this guy who is 22 years older than i am. im only 18 but i love him so much. we have been together 5 months but keeping it a bit of secret from my family. they would go mad if they found out i dunno what to ...

A.   8 October 2008: i myself am going out with some one 21years olser than me im 21 hes 42, i was 18 when i got with him my 2 brothers were mad my mom was fine, what you could do is take him to your parents house a few times wait till they get on really well after a ... (read in full...)

I love him but how long should I wait for him to make up his mind about marriage?

Q.   How long should I wait for my boyfriend to propose to me? We have been together for 2 years now and have had a huge fight about marriage. He knows how important it is to me, and has even led me on about getting married. During our huge fight he ...

A.   8 October 2008: you wait untill he is ready to force him into it or else in a few years to come it will come back to haunt you. if you love him as much as you say then just be greatfull youve got him in you life. marrage isnt everything as long as your happy with ... (read in full...)

It's hard sometimes juggling mates and boyfriends and I'm not sure what I want!

Q.   I don't know wether to stay with my boyfriend. Sometimes i think i want to be with him forever and then sometimes when im not in a good mood i feel like i dont want to be with him. Also its hard juggling mates and boyfriends. I just dont know what ...

A.   8 October 2008: your only young yet you shouldnt be thinking about a permanant ralationship well not worrying about one any how, spend time with your freinds have fun dont settle down to soon especially why your feeling this way, im not saying dump him but just ... (read in full...)

I got drunk and ended up losing my virginity to my boyfriend, I don't recall this, have I been taken advantage of?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 2 months, a week ago i got very drunk and ended up going back to stay at his. The next morning my boyfriend told me we had had sex. i do not remember this at all and i felt he had took advantage of me as ...

A.   8 October 2008: you shouldnt really be getting drunk as you are only 13-15 so it says, and even if you dont remember it you would sure feel it in the morning as it is sore when you lose your virginitie and you would of spotted things like a little blood in your ... (read in full...)

How do you ask out your best friend?

Q.   how do you ask out a girl whoe has been your best friend for a very long time?...

A.   7 October 2008: First of all be sure your freindship will survive the split up of a ralationship, and second of all if your to shy or scared to tell her to her face pop it down in a letter or a text or a phone call you havent got to face her that way.xx... (read in full...)

I don't know how to give a blow job. And do you remove the tampon before having sex?

Q.   Hiya. My boyfriend keeps dropping really obvious hints that he wants a blow job. It's not that i don't want to give him one because he have had sex, but i've never given one before and i dont want to seem stupid. So any tips? Also my friend has sex ...

A.   7 October 2008: yes def take tampon out as it could get lodged in a place she wouldnt want it lodged and it could course harm to her. 2nd of all DO NOT GIVE ORAL TO HIM UNLESS YOU REALLY WANT TO. if you want to try practiseing on things like i dont know a banana as ... (read in full...)

Me and my girlfriend split three days ago, but I want her back...

Q.   Hey, I've just broken up with my girlfriend, we was only going out for a short period of time, we broke up because she said we kept argueing. but i still want her back, is there any way to find out wether she likes me still, without out bein...

A.   7 October 2008: Not unless you want to trick her in to finding out which wouldnt be a good idea, what you could do if your that keen on finding out, pick one of your closest female freinds one that she dont know or even a relative and get her to pose as your ... (read in full...)

What should I do about my relationship?

Q.   Well, i need an advise, me and my boyfriend were dating about 3 years, we did argue alot over stupid staf, the last time we got in to arguement things run out of control, he was trying to hold me back from breaking staf and some how i end up at the ...

A.   7 October 2008: Thats men for you always changeing their minds, First of all dont love some one who is not going to love you back, but since you cant help it heres my advice, try keeping your self busy, try dateing different people, or get a hobbie e.g writtting, ... (read in full...)

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